So, you’re about to meet that girl you’ve had a crush on for the longest time; but you’re completely dumbfounded about how to break the ice or how to hold her attention?
While you can be a bit of your broody mysterious self, because that’s appealing, you have to show some desire to get to know what it is that makes her tick, what her likes/dislikes are and what essentially constitutes the person she is, be it the way she holds her world together or the craziest thing she has done in her life.
And as you’d surely want to get a sneak peek into her world, here are a few interesting yet meaningful questions you could ask her to get an idea of the woman that she is:
1. “What is that one achievement that you are most proud of?”
This will give you an insight into her strengths, her willpower and her determination towards the goals that she dreams of achieving in her life.
2. “Would you prioritize work over love?”
In today’s day and age, where women are becoming the bread earners in many families, this question will highlight a woman’s priorities, her work ethic and her unstoppable ambition.
This will also let you know what she’d prioritize if and when there comes a point in her life where she has to choose between one or the other.
3. “What is the craziest thing you have ever done?”
No matter how sensible and mature the girl is, a streak of madness is always attractive. This will introduce you to her crazy sensibilities, her wildest fantasies and all those unexpected things she might have done that you couldn’t even have thought about.
4. “Who is that one person in this world you knows you inside out?”
Well, we all have that one person in our lives who knows us like no one else does. Asking this question will let you know about her closest pal, her 4:00 AM friend, her go-to person and the one she confides in.
5. “What makes you fall in love?”
Now asking this question will introduce you to the ‘mushy and sensitive’ side of hers – what makes her heart flutter, what makes her insides melt, what gives her the ‘butterfly effect’.
6. “How do you de-stress?”
Whether it’s getting all sweaty in the gym and turning up the music to dance like there’s no tomorrow, or curling up in a blanket with her hot cup of coffee and favourite book- what is it that makes her forget all the stress and worries of the world and zone out into her own?
Asking this question is certain to give you deeper linsight into the person that she is.
7. “What are your passions?”
What is it that makes her eyes glow when she talks about it? What is it that makes her soul happy when she does it? What is it that she would want to get lost into?
Her passions make her beautiful and give her the kind of confidence that nothing else in the world could. As such, it’s important for you to know about them as well.
8. Finally, “What is it that you want from a relationship?”
Now this is a very crucial question to ask, one that will show you the ‘woman’ that she is – the one who will make for an enviable and aspiring power couple or the one who will be the loving home maker?
Perhaps a bit of both? The kind of man and the things she wants in a romantic relationship will give you an insight into the kind of woman she is, and the one that she’s going to be.